How did she do it?

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Posted 04.17.2008 in Matchmaker's Diary

Just got off the phone with a 36 years old female client, and oh boy, I’m so amazed how she got both 2 men I introduced to her so attached. How hooked are they? Well, the first guy pursued the courtship by signing up for a membership at True Fitness where she’s a member, and to top it off, he also joined her yoga class.  <<-That’s what I called a dedication! (Trust me, I interviewed him, and he’s far from being flexy). The second guy is also very persistent. According to her, he kept asking her out by phone and emails.  

What’s her secret?  Why are men still after her at 36, when most guys would  prefer to meet someone a lot younger? 

It’s a combination of many things, but the essence is to make what looks perfect, easy to do and maintain. Let’s start with the physical attributes, she dresses well, put on a suitable amount of makeup, and her hair is blown dry (every day despite a v. busy work schedule).  It looks flawless, and natural.  She also knows how to do small talk, and most importantly, makes guys feel at ease around her.  And the last bit, is not to give in so easily when men court her, but to keep them interested long enough to learn about each other and to develop into something more meaningful later. 

I have my finger crossed on buying a wedding cake for the first guy and her within this year. 

 


Author: nikki

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Aleksander April 19th, 2008

“I have my finger crossed on buying a wedding cake for the first guy and her within this year. ”

What about the second guy?

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