How to talk to any woman?
The key to talk to any woman, whether she’s pretty or not, is to be sincere, polite and spontaneous. One of the easiest way to start a conversation is to ask a question and be curious about something genuine. You should choose question that interest most people and be specific. Questions such as “What do you do for a living?” or “what’s your name?” or “do you come here often?” are too boring and won’t grab her attention as she’s probably been asked these questions all too many times if she’s attractive.
Positioning Yourself
The best way to start a conversation with a stranger is to not walk straight up to them. This may sound counterintuitive, but the person will find you less threatening and less “trying-too hard” if you actually speak to her from the side way, or better if you looked as if you just turned yourself around and speak over your shoulder. Once the conversation get going, you can turn your whole body around and face her. I often tried these while queuing in Starbucks or during a ride on the lift.
Smile!
Fake it if you can’t do it naturally when you approach people. No one can tell! She will think you are friendly.
Volume
Make sure she can hear you properly. If the place is too loud, don’t lean in, just keep your back straight and talk louder or later move to a more quiet place.
Her Buddies
Don’t leave anyone out of the conversation, especially if she didn’t come alone. You will win more cookies point if you pay attention to her friends as well in a long run, and the same rule applies to both guy and girl friends.
Mentioning of her boyfriend
If during a conversation, she casually dropped a hint that she has a boyfriend, you can always respond with “You thought I was flirting with you? awww…that’s sweet…but you are not my type”. It’ll nudge her attention, if she wasn’t interested in you then, she’ll be now.
Last, what ever you do, do it with confident. There is nothing more attractive than talking to a confident man. ;)
One Response to “How to talk to any woman?”
hm interesting stuff.But i love to talk directly to them and womens are really hotter than girls..