70 is a magic number.
It’s an age of the oldest member we got in the database. His daughter-in-law signed him up to our matchmaking service after his late-wife passed away couple of years ago. It always give me a warm fuzzy feeling when I know I have make a different to this man. Companionship becomes increasingly important the older you get. Compared to a 40 or 50s years old person, at 70, you will be lucky to have enough attention from your kids and to have friends still alive and kicking.

Our latest feedback from him was that he is now talking everyday to the lady we set him up with, and they are going to go out to dinner again this week. I think it’s absolutely adorable.

Last week, I read dreadful news that almost a million Thai would be out of job in 2009, up from 530,000 in the first nine months of 2008. Our economy is facing a serious downturn, there are increasing numbers of people outside of Bangkok seeking job in the city, but lacking the skills to be employed.  Airports shutdown, political unrest, tourists fleeing the country and capital divestment, all contributed towards making the economy more severe next year. 

Thailand already lacks the capability to deal with its own existing fundamental issues without these recent problems fueling the fire.  It has too many unskilled upcountry populations lingering around looking for unavailable jobs. This leads to an increase in crime rate, prostitution, and illegal businesses.  People stops caring about the environment and improving the society when they couldn’t help themselves with every day basic needs. This brings us back to the fundamental building block of education. 

Bangkok city governor can only do the job well when the governor understands that Bangkok’s problems are Thailand’s issues, and tackle the problem on a bigger scale with long term results.  We need to address the root cause, not from the tip of the iceberg, like putting a fake bear tree on the road.  That’s what I called a coriander on porridge. 

Thailand statistic is still showing the number of students declining as they go through primary school to secondary to college/universities. The numbers of schools with access to internet or computer are at the unacceptable level.  How inspiring is it for a child to see an old illustrate text books with farmers as a role model, and this is what he should grow up to be?

We need to help our children compete in a 21^st century world, and we need to make sure they receive 21^st century education.  We need more qualified teachers, doctors and more jobs in the countryside. We need to build better roads, bridges, access to electricity, telecommunication, and create a strong communities in every single corners of Thailand. 

We need to modernize our health care system. Hospitals should be able to share information of the patients, an integrated system, where patients can go to any hospital in the country, and there would be a full record, and using a cutting edge technology to treat the patients.  We are not saving money, but the aim is to save life and improving it. 

I also want to see the governor tackled the energy efficiency in Bangkok buildings.  We need to turn the air-condition higher, so people stop wearing jumpers in the cinema or feeling chill every time they walk in the department stores or in their office building.  We also need to do something about the traffic on Sukhumvit road leading to Siam, because it meant we are losing millions of baht each year on burnt unused petrol in traffic.  Bangkok needs to regulate the public places being built in highly dense populated area; we need to expand the community out in an organized way. 

These are a few parts of my Bangkok recovery plan that I would like to see the next Bangkok governor tackles instead of fumbling around with the corianders.  These issues require urgent actions, and Thai has been waiting far too long to be saved.  These countryside kids and unemployed workers need to know they have a future.  And the governor who could think outside the box and even showed me a small sign on their posters that he/she sees Bangkok as a symptom of Thailand’s chronic illness will deserve to be our governor. 

The competition is fierce in the world of free news.  GURU and BK magazines were the prominent players in the free market in 2005-2006, until many other magazines such as Viva and TGI Friday follows suit.  As a reader, I felt quite overwhelm by the choices of what to read.  There doesn’t seems to be enough time to capture them, so reliability in the distribution plays a key role in what gets read. And as a sponsor to these magazines, I feel the market share has broken up into smaller pieces, and require me to carefully choose the magazines to invest in. This is also because the number of circulation quoted by them just doesn’t seems to add up to the total number of readers anymore. 

What’s the way forward for these free magazines? Will we visit the bubble burst like when there were too many magazines launched in 2004? 

Free magazines are a very lucrative business.  They earn a very profitable income from advertisements, (trust me I talked to the people running them.) Weekly magazines earns weekly income, daily magazines earns 7 times that weekly income!  But of course, advertisements cannot increase forever to support the run of so many new magazines. The existing magazines will need to be qualitative and consistent in its content and distribution channel.  As far as I can see, none has been able to achieve this standard, but it’s never too late. 

Despite the smart suit, rolling up sleeves, going to top universities, and sweating our way up the corporate ladder, women do still like to be taken care of when it comes to dating. Many want to date a prince charming and being looked after (I don’t mean paying for mortgage here), instead of get treated equally. It could be viewed as a double standard, but I think we are genetically ingrained to behave this way. 

Women are, as you know, physically weaker than men, so nature engineered itself such that men will want to support women, or in this modern case, carry her handbag. In the past, women are also attracted to a mating partners that are physically strong to pass on their genes. So as the world evolved, the men with “good genes” are often tend to be smarter, and therefore likely to be more successful.  Women then sensed the “good genes” not just from the physical attribute, but also from his ability to pick up the bill and provide the comfort to raise the family and passed on their genes. 

So are women lazy? are we spoiled? Have we moved the feminism back 50 years as it said in the article?  We are as nature intended us to be, and this is a personal choice and nothing to do with feminism. 

Or looked at yourself in the mirror and thought “My hair looks so dull/unnatural, and I had this hair style/colour for years, but don’t know how to change it.”

Or I owned as much cosmetics products as a make up artist does, but I can’t seem to be able to apply it to the same affect.

Every weekend, I have scheduled in atleast one makeover session with male and female clients who are about to go on the date, to go over their attires, hairs, makeup, perfumes etc.  I think I have done it enough time to be able to start blogging about it with some useful insights and really workable tips. 

The first thing I considered when the clients come in, is to see if their clothes are right for them.  Does the cloth suits your lifestyle, social situations and personality? And most important of all, does the cloth says to your dating partner that “I am the one that you want to be seen next to”?

Hair is another essential items that often gets neglected. Most hairdressers cut your hair the way you told them to, but does it really suits your personality, lifestyle or career? I mean for a start, the hairdressers just wouldn’t know, unless you have been going to the same one for years.  Styling your hair is also very important, don’t over do whatever you think is good because it is usually isn’t. 

And the last point is just absolutely unbelievable, it always amazed me how many Thai women don’t know how to put on a good make up.  Applying the makeup in a right way can make you not only look younger, but it will also save you from having to buy in new unnecessary products that come out every seasons unknowlegably.

Trust me, changing your image can also boost your confident, and you will be glad that you took on the advice. 

People who come to see me are usually people who are ready to make a postive change to their life. They are proactive, wanting to choose, rather than being chosen.  So depending on how much changes you are prepared for, the makeover can be 10 mins -3 months, but the benefit is for a lifetime. (Note: Unlike an image consultant in the department stores that gets commissions if you buy the products (meaning conflict of interest), I don’t get paid for this, so you can be assured what I suggest will be worth it.)

Did I mention that I just recieved a call after this blog went up from my client, whom I did a makeover for last Thursday, saying that she got approached by a guy who offered to pay for her dinner with friends after she tried following my makeup tip? She was so pleased about it as it has never happened before! Great job girl!

A guideline of our free makeover process will be put up at the end of this week.

If you want to go big and broke, watch out when you hire a PR company.  They may be good with getting newspaper to write articles on your business, organise an event, leaflet handouts etc. but they also great at sucking your income faster than you could earn it.  Line out all the details of what they will be offering to every single details otherwise your investment can dry up into a heated Bangkok air.  Write to me if you want to know a good and most effective PR company in Bangkok. 

 A lot of time you can actually do a self PR without going through an agency, but it’s time consuming especially if you don’t know who to contact.  Some jounalists do take compensation (off the book) for writing a story on your product , but it will take a lot of time and effort. It is somewhat easier if you hold a press conference of  the new product launch or send them photograph of your events, they will likely to publish it.  For the first example, make sure that you inform the newspapers and magazine in advance prior to press conference.  If some newspaper can’t make it, some jounalist will actually try to interview you afterwards.

Direct adverstisement in the magazines or newspaper are also pretty pricey.  I have recently got a quote from Prestige, an upscale magazine, with a 275,000 baht for a page inside the front cover, and why should anyone choose to advertise with this magazine? The exact quote is:

• Represents only outrageously luxury brands

• High earning professional target market

• Beautifully designed advertisings

• Engaging editorial

I almost choked when I read the first reason, and started to wonder what comes first, an outrageously expensive luxury brand or a crazy price quote from a Thai magazine. 

The last tip if you want to run a business in Thailand, it’s not what you can do, but it’s who you know. It’s sad but true. 

His answer was “maybe when it hits 50 baht per litre, then I’ll start taking a taxi”. 

Whether it’s $100/ bbl now for 30 baht/litre of gasoline, or a $200/bbl for 50 baht/litre (taking account of the anticipated dollar depreciation), the oil price will keep going up as long as you keep paying. 

With the surging inflation via food prices and other products, the consumers have yet to step back (or if they have, not in a significant way).  Many countires in Asia, still have oil price subsidies, particularly large consumers such as China, India, Indonesia and Malaysia.  Although China can/wants  to move away from these subsidies, it prefers to buy it off as the Olympics is approaching. 

In the absence of political events, I would expect crude oil prices to slip in the near term due to weaker demand in Europe, but a continued annual increases in oil price until 2010, or whenever my boyfriend decided to stop driving.

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Goldman analysts Arjun Murti, Kevin Koh and Michele della Vigna said prices have advanced more quickly than Goldman had forecast back in 2005, when it predicted a range of $50 to $105 a barrel as part of its “super-spike” oil theory.“We characterized the upper end of the band as more likely to be driven by geopolitical turmoil and that recession was a key risk to our view,” the analysts said. “In fact, oil prices have reached $100 a barrel without extraordinary turmoil, and the U.S. currently appears to be in recession.”Tacking on $15 a barrel to all of its oil estimates, Goldman now sees average selling prices of $95 a barrel for 2008, $105 a barrel for 2009 and $110 a barrel for 2010. The high end of its range is now $135 a barrel — but Goldman hinted that prices could be headed even higher. “As the lack of supply growth and price-insulated non-OECD demand suggest a future rebound in U.S. gross domestic product growth or a major oil supply disruption could lead to $150-$200 a barrel oil prices,” Goldman said.”

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Everyone deserves a little photo treat once in a while. And it was my lucky weekend to have a professional photographer (k. Fon) taken pictures for me. After a stressful years of corporate law, Fon decided to pursue a photography career, something which she always wanted to do since high school. She finally took up the courage, and graduated from New England School of Photography, Boston, USA, a well-known photography school in 2007.  Her work with portrait is absolutely fantastic, definitely a rising star in photographer community in Thailand. She has a studio near Ratchayothin if your want your photo taken indoor. Personally I found Fon to be very proactive in her job, and was great at making us relax and doing a natural pose.